Friday, November 11, 2011
But It's Not Berry Season
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
Your Own Reality Show
Monday, September 26, 2011
Paleo Part 3 - The Good, the Bad and the Great Bonk
- I dropped 9 lbs in the first few weeks. It was all fat loss. My body fat % dropped from about 13 to around 8.5%. Most of it was in the lay around my gut.
- That change in body comp led to a leaner, stronger look that was noticed by my colleagues and friends. It was without a doubt the leanest and strongest I’ve ever looked.
- My energy level improved as did my sleeping habits. No more late night carb binges and no more bloated feeling throughout the day. I woke up ready to go.
- And without getting into too much detail, my digestive system profoundly changed for the better.
- Weight loss is not a goal of mine. Losing the 9 lbs put my under 200 for the first time in 20 years. There is something about being under that number that concerns me. Even though I felt fine I thought I needed to eat more or add more carbs to up my weight.
- My friends are not necessarily eating Paleo. I have determined that keeping granola and ice cream in the house for my girlfriend when she visits is not something I can do. If those two items are around I eat them, plain and simple.
- It can be expensive to buy whole foods all the time. I found about a 25% increase in my food budget. I believe it is worth the investment but it is something to be aware of.
- Meal prep takes time. My schedule permits me time to prep meals on some days and no time on other days. I have friends who do all their meal prep on Sundays for the week. I have not gotten to that level of nutritional organization yet. Still working on it.
Monday, September 12, 2011
It’s what you do on the tough days that matters
It’s what you do on the tough days that matters.
Saturday I participated in my favorite event of the year. It is a two-person team triathlon that features a ¾ mile run into a 1.5 mile canoe into a 14-mile bike ride into a 5K run. Both partners need to stay together throughout the race.
The weather was accomodating considering the massive amounts of rain we’ve had in
But you never know what might happen. Did the weather change? No. Did someone get dumped out of the canoe? Maybe, but not that I saw.
No, my good friend and former race partner sprained his ankle a quarter mile into the ¾ mile run. Not sure what happened but with a large group running down a narrow path it doesn’t take much to turn a perfect day for a race into a dissappointing day where you and your partner can’t finish.
The thing is, the “can’t finish” part doesn’t come into my friend Mike’s vocabularly. At 63, he is as fit as the fittest 30-year-olds I know. I can’t keep up with him on a bike. I’d like to think I can out run him but secretly I never enter running events with him so he doesn’t have the opportunity to prove me wrong.
Mike and his partner finished the run to the canoe, proceded to paddle to the 8th best time and then got on the bikes and worked their way up to 6th overall. They averaged 17.4 mph. And one of them had a sprained ankle.
Then came the 5K. 3.1 miles of running. That just wasn’t going to work. So they walked it. It took them almost an hour. One team after another passing them. Teams they knew they would have beaten.
Mike hid the pain long enough to run the last few hundred yards to the finish line with his partner. They would have finished in the top 5 if it weren’t for the injury. They finished 50th.
The point here is not “gut it out no matter how bad the pain.” I don’t believe in that. There is no need to risk permanent injury. Mike assessed the issue and decided to keep going. He knows his body. His partner stuck with him.
The point is anyone can have a great day when the conditions are perfect and there are no obstacles in your way. Sunny skies, well-paved roads, nice bikes, etc. The question is, how do you respond when something doesn’t go according to the perfect script? Do you pack it in and say “wait till next year”? Do you let it ruin your whole race? Or do you just work harder on the canoe and the bike knowing that the run is going to suffer?
The sweet justice is that they still qualified for 2nd in the Masters Division and collected a medal. Goes to show you what happens when you finish.
Friday, September 9, 2011
Popeye, Olive Oil and Roger Federer

The last major tournament of the professional tennis season is concluding this weekend at the U.S. Open in
Roger Federer has made his way into the semi-finals. That is no surprise. Federer is arguably the greatest tennis player of all time. His 16 major titles including 6
Take a few minutes to watch part of a Federer match this weekend. Not just for his grace, quickness, agility and total command of the sport. No, I actually want you to look at Federer himself. In case you can’t see a match this weekend, I’ve included a picture below.
What I want you to notice is the massive difference in the size of his left arm (bicep and forearm) and his right arm. His right arm is muscled and thick like Popeye’s. His left arm is thin and wiry like Olive Oil’s. You would never think the two arms belong to the same person.
Federer is right-handed, meaning he hits all of his shots with the racket in his right hand. For a professional player that means he is hitting literally thousands of shots every day with his right arm and doing little, if anything, with his left arm.
Federer has a huge muscular imbalance. In general, muscular imbalances are a bad thing. They cause a person to rely on the stronger muscle set and that can lead to problems in other parts of the body. For example, a person with a muscle imbalance that favors their right arm will tend to carry heavy things (a briefcase or a piece of luggage) with the stronger arm. This forces core muscles to be overused to support lifting with the right side of the body, it causes muscles in the upper back and neck on the right side to be overused and it can lead to shifting of the hips while walking. All of these can create muscle imbalances throughout the body.
For many professional athletes, imbalance is common. Baseball pitchers, golfers and others repeat the same motion over and over throughout the year to the point where they couldn’t possibly spend enough time using the opposite arm to correct the imbalance.
As a non-professional athlete, however, you need to work to keep your muscles in balance. Here are some simple tips to keep your body evenly strong and looking symmetrical.
1) Use dumbbells for strength exercises. Using machines or barbells permits one side of the body to push harder than the other. Using dumbbells isolates the same amount of weight in each hand and forces symmetrical movement during the exercise.
2) Practice performing exercises standing on one leg (once you’ve mastered the exercise on two legs). This forces each leg to strengthen and improve balance independently of the other leg.
3) When doing an exercise like a lunge, make sure you are completing a full range of motion with each stride. Many people will limit their range of motion on the weaker side.
4) Always choose an equal amount of weight for each arm when using dumbbells. Do not increase the weight until you are able to do a full range of motion with great form on each side. The strong arm may be ready to progress to a heavier weight but in the long run it is best to keep both arms progressing together.
5) Take some time off from your sport during the off-season. If you do participate in a sport that requires emphasis on a one-sided motion, make sure that during the off-season you work to bring your body back into balance. Baseball pitcher Barry Zito begins working on exercises to get his body back in balance immediately after the season ends.
If you have questions please contact Active Personal Fitness at 267.626.7478. We offer in-home personal fitness training and group exercise classes throughout Central Bucks.
If you are an area tennis player, make sure you visit 40 Love Pro Shop in Doylestown. You can earn a $75 gift certificate for our classes or personal training if you become a regular at their shop!!
Be well,
Paul
Sunday, August 7, 2011
Join Me in "The Rice Experiment"
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Paleo eating -- First 10 days
Getting Started with Paleo
I’m 10 days into my paleo way of eating. If you missed it, I decided to begin eating ‘like the cavemen/cavewomen’ in order to improve my health and workout performance. Basically, it’s meat, fish, vegatables, fruit and nuts for me from now on. Check out my earlier blog for more details.
I’m happy to say that one week in I am still standing upright, getting in good workouts (with one exception), and have lost 5 lbs. More on that later.
First off, I should explain a few things that make this transition easier for me than for most people. I am a fitness trainer by profession. I spend a lot of time reading and talking to people about health, fitness and nutrition. The knowledge I gained from this industry already had me part way to paleo. For example, I cut down on pasta years ago, I also experimented with many different fruits and vegatables that I never ate as a kid (corn and green beans in my house growing up – most likely from a can), but I still had some problem areas.
Let’s dig into those problem areas now, shall we.
Sweetened beverages – mainly iced tea which I drink all the time. Over the years I went from sweetening with splenda to sugar to eventually a tablespoon of honey when I make it on my own. I also would stop at the local convenience store and buy sweetened tea sweetened with ‘real sugar’ (as if that somehow makes it better) to the tune of about 36g per serving.
Dairy – Since I was a kid I have been addicted to milk. I could drink it non-stop all day. Unfortunately, I always felt milk was better if paired with a cookie, brownie, muffin or granola. I have to admit that the main reason I ate sweets up until a few weeks ago was because of this milk/sweet pairing I loved so much. I ditched milk for soy milk a couple months back and the addiction got worse. I was drinking a half gallon a day. And chocolate soy milk…it might as well have been a million dollars.
Legumes – I ate beans, mostly black beans, as a protein source. I’m a big fan of Mexican food so a wheat wrap with beef or chicken, salsa, and black beans was a staple. They are gone now but I can still make a great burrito paleo style.
So how did the first 10 days go
Armed with “Everyday Paleo” by Sarah Fragoso I went to the local Wegman’s to fill my pantry and fridge with the essentials. My next blog with talk about the essentials and what I did with the non-paleo stuff I had in the house.
Breakfast has been easy. In the past I would eat 3 eggs for breakfast or granola with milk. The granola and milk are gone. Now it is 3 eggs, an avacado, maybe some virginia ham, a banana or other fresh fruit and coconut or almond milk.
Lunch is usually leftovers from a prior night’s dinner (beef, chicken, fish and veggies). I also add in some almonds or peanuts. If I’m not in the mood for leftovers I go with a burger loaded up with fresh tomato, onion, greens and spices.
Dinners have been awesome. Sirloin
Did I ‘cheat’?
I ate 95% paleo for 10 days and I expect to eat 90% paleo over the long haul. I don’t believe in restricting foods. I do believe that once you eat clean and realize how certain foods make you feel lousy you will voluntarily say no to them. Over the first 10 days I had a scoop of ice cream at Freddy Farms after mini-golf, a few handfuls of chocolate granola, and a small slice of strawberry cheesecake….all guilt free.
In my upcoming blogs you’ll hear:
- How to setup your pantry and fridge for paleo eating
- My brutal bike ride and why paleo for endurance athletes might be troublesome
- What changes I am seeing in my workouts and body composition
Monday, August 1, 2011
Fat Loss Tip of the Week - Write it down
One of my boot campers was frustrated because she was getting stronger and more fit but not losing weight. My suggestion was to start a food journal. Three weeks later she is down 6lbs and looking great. As long as she keeps going the weight will keep coming off.
So right now take a blank piece of paper, create 5 columns, label them "day", "time", "food", "amount", and "why I ate." The "why I ate" column should be filled with terms like "hungry", "bored", "stressed", "post-workout", "watching tv". This will give you an idea of what activities cause you to eat.
Send me an email at getfit@ActivePersonalFitness.com and I will email you a food journal for you to fill out. Get after it.
Be well,
Paul
Paul Dziewisz
Active Personal Fitness
www.ActivePersonalFitness.com
267.626.7478
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Two Deep Breaths and Belief
Two Deep Breaths and Belief
Do you believe?
Some people believe in magic, some in God, some in ghosts. Some believe this is the year their team will win the Super Bowl. Some people believe this is the week they’ll win the lottery.
But that’s not what I’m talking about.
I want to know if you believe in yourself.
After 5 years as a personal trainer I can tell you that many people don’t believe in themselves. They begin a lot of sentences like this….
“I can’t…”
I can’t lose weight.
I can’t find time to workout.
I can’t jog.
This may be you. This may be someone you know.
As a trainer it is my job to get the most out of my client’s potential. The best way to do this is to make them BELIEVE in themselves. The process can be slow.
Some people think they “can’t do pushups.” We give them a version of a pushup they can do. Some people think they “can’t walk briskly for 10 minutes.” We get them to walk for 11 minutes, then 12, then 15. Some people think they “can’t lift a 10 lb dumbbell” because “Jillian only has me use 3 lb weights on her DVD.” Then we have them pick up 5 lb dumbbells, then 8, then 10, etc.
Why don’t they believe in themselves? They don’t believe because they’ve never tried it before or they tried it once and failed. So how do you begin to believe?
The first step is TAKE TWO DEEP BREATHS. Really, this works. Breathing can help you calm down, clear your head, and refocus on what you need to do.
If you are ready to start minute 11 of your walk and you are tired and think you can’t go on, stop and take two deep breaths and continue.
Two weekends ago a group of 8 of my boot campers did a 5K Mud Run. The run was over a hilly course and featured 8 obstacles including scaling a 5 foot wall, climbing over an 8 foot high cargo net and Army crawling through several deep mud pits.
Before the event I heard…
“I can’t run 5k.”
“I can’t scale that wall.”
“I can’t trudge through the mud.”
Yet every one of us tried. Every one of us finished. And most of us are ready to do another one.
Every one of us knew it would be tough but with two deep breaths and a belief that we could do it we finished. Now all of the sudden “I can’t” is replaced with “I did.”
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
I’m Going Paleo – What, Why and How?
Your reaction to me saying “I’m going paleo” probably falls into one of four categories.
“Why would you want to do that?”
“What or where is a paleo?”
“Who cares?”
This series of blog posts are aimed at all of you. The “who cares” contingent probably won’t read for long but might learn something when they do read. The rest are likely to have your questions answered while you learn about the how’s and whys of choosing to eat paleo.
I will be learning along with you, in real time, while experiencing what if any impact it has on my health, strength, mood, endurance, stress, speed, outlook on life and many other factors. My intent is to share with you what it means to eat paleo, from shopping to cooking to the inevitable 'cheating'. I hope you enjoy the read and, if it is right for you, join me.
Let’s get the first question out of the way. What is paleo?
It is a way of eating that mimics our hunter-gatherer ancestors based on the notion that humans have, over the millenia, genetically adapted to eating meats, fish, vegetables and fruits. Our modern diet, just a blip on the historical timeline, based primarily on grains, legumes, dairy products, processed foods and refined sugars predispose us to sickness. Basically, our bodies are used to us eating like a caveman/cavewoman so we should do so.
Why am I choosing to go paleo?
In February I will be going to the C.R.A.S.H. B World Indoor Rowing Championships in
Primarily paleo is an experiment for me. Some of the fittest people I know are strict paleo followers. They choose it to stay lean and fit but they probably would be that way anyway given the amount of effort they put into their workouts. More importantly to me, eating paleo improves their results. Whether it is strength, cardio capacity, or race times…by most measures they get better, stronger and faster.
I believe eating paleo will give me greater capacity to go faster and finish better at the event. As a by-product, I want to see and feel the health benefits of paleo eating.
In upcoming posts I'll discuss my pre-paleo nutrition and let you know how I got started. This isn't the first attempt, just the first serious attempt at "going paleo". Wish me luck.
Sunday, July 10, 2011
The Push Away Diet
The Atkins Diet
South Beach
Nutrisystem
The Zone
and now....The Push Away Diet
What's the difference between them. It's simple. The last one works for everyone and lasts a lifetime. The secret...before you feel full push yourself away from the table.
You can't buy a book about the Push Away Diet. You can't download an app for it. The diet is just a way of being.
I read this approach from Mike Boyle, one of the foremost authorities on strength training and nutrition in the industry. Here's how you do it (borrowing liberally from a blog by my colleagues Chris and Kara Mohr):
1. Get out of the habit of cleaning your plate. Always leave some food on it.
2. When you eat out, ask for half of your meal to be put in a doggy bag BEFORE they serve the meal to you.
3. At a party or social gathering, don't stand around at the buffet, grill, or kitchen.
Three simple steps. Start today.
Do you need motivtation? Accountability? Some one to nudge you? Claim your complimentary fitness consultation and evaluation (an $87 value) today. Visit our website to sign up.
Be well,
Paul
Paul Dziewisz
Active Personal Fitness
www.ActivePersonal Fitness.com
267.626.7478
"You give us the effort...we'll get you the results."
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Oh no, this is going to be my toughest client yet

Sunday, June 12, 2011
So you don't want to be overweight
Thursday, June 9, 2011
Ladies, you won't look like Arnold
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
The First 5 Bites
- Eat smaller portion sizes and savor the flavor of the 5 bites
- Eat a variety of foods within one meal but only a small amount of each
- Use fresh spices and rubs to bring your food to life with flavor without adding additional calories.
- Eat with family or friends sitting around a table (not on a couch), without a tv blaring in the background and converse. It will slow down your eating and promote proper portion control.
- Learn to cook even if it is just 3 or 4 dishes. It is very hard to lose weight when you are not responsible for the food preparation.
Monday, May 9, 2011
How much should I eat?
How much should I eat each day?
My clients frequently ask me how much I should eat each day. They are typically framing the question based on the number of calories they should consume.
Calories are only part of the story. Yes, calorie restriction can aid in weight loss and physiology tells us we must create a 3,500 calorie deficit (through reduction of calories consumed or an increase in calorie-burning exercise) to lose one pound. But if you’ve read my blog long enough you know that I am much more concerned with what types of macronutrients (carbs, fats and proteins) you eat than how much of them.
I try to follow The Zone as my nutrition guide. The general concept is to balance each meal with 30% of the calories coming from protein, 30% from fat and 40% from carbohydrates. Several meals (5-6) should be spread out every 3-4 hours throughout the day.
So how much should I eat?
We base this determination on how much protein you should consume each day. Once you know your suggested protein consumption it is easy to determine how much fats and carbs to consume. To determine how much protein you should eat do the following:
- Weight yourself and record the number.
- Determine your body fat %. Contact me for a complimentary fitness assessment which includes a body fat measurement or contact your physician or wellness provider.
- Determine your lean body mass. If you weight 200lbs and you determine your body fat % is 20% then your body is made up of 40lbs of fat tissue and 160lbs of lean mass (muscle, plasma, skin, bones, etc.) The formula is:
Lean body mass = Weight – (Weight * Body Fat %)
- Determine your activity level and assign it a value between 0.7 (moderate daily activity) and 1.0 (serious athlete). If you are not sure lean toward the 0.7.
- Calculate the amount of protein needed as follows:
Grams of daily protein = Lean body mass (from step #3) * Activity level (from step #4). So if you have 160lbs of lean body mass and do moderate daily activity then you need to consume @ 112 grams of protein per day.
Thanks, Paul, but could you give us another example?
Sure. We have a person who weighs 125lbs with a body fat percentage of 23.1%. Her lean body mass is 125 – (125 * .231) which is 125 – 28.9 which equals 96.1 lbs of lean body mass.
As a mom of 2 kids and having a full time job she fits in 3-4 intense workouts per week. I would put her activity level at 0.8.
So, 96.1 * .8 equals 77. She should be eating approximately 77 grams of protein per day. A gram of protein is 4 calories so about 308 calories a day should come from protein.
This also means she should be consuming 77 grams of fats and that translates to 693 calories from fat per day. There are 9 calories in each gram of fat.
Finally, because carbs should be in a 4:3 ratio with protein and fat, her carbs consumptions should be 103 grams per day. Carbs are 4 calories per gram so her calories from carbs are about 412.
Total daily calorie consumption is about 1413.
These numbers are exact to show you the math but remember they are just guidelines and should be rounded off and approximated. Don’t become a slave to weighing your food or counting every last calorie all the time. Focus on getting more protein in your body and hitting your protein number each day. You’ll start to see the results you want.
First and foremost, start each meal or snack with protein as the main visual and add healthy carbs and fats around it.
And don’t forget….
The most important thing is WHAT you eat. Your carbs should be low on the glycemic index. That means limit rice, bread, candy, potato, sweets, sodas, and most processed carbohydrates. Fats should be the good fats you get from avacados, olive and canola oils, and most nuts.
Be well,
Paul
Paul Dziewisz
Active Personal Fitness
www.ActivePersonalFitness.com
267.626.7478
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Final Prep for the Broad Street Run 10-miler
I hope you had a good final long run this past weekend. For the rest of the week you should do moderate total body workouts until Thursday and one last relaxed run on Friday. No more than 3 miles. If you want to do a light run on Saturday that is fine to but that is just to stay loose. None of your workouts this week are going to impact your overall fitness or time enough to make a big difference on Sunday. You really just want to continue to feel “ready”. That means well-stretched and active.
Things to remember for Sunday.
- Eat something small in the morning. A piece of fruit, energy bar like a Clif Bar, or a small portion of yogurt/granola. It should be something you eat before other runs. Rule #1 – you don’t want to try something new on race day!!
- The weather looks good for Sunday. High of 68 but you’ll be done before that kicks in. Better to underdress. You’ll warm up soon enough. If you go long sleeves make sure it is breathable and comfortable.
- Arrive early. Packet pick-up should be the day before so you’ll have all your stuff. But you want to get there early enough to find parking, your corral and get warmed up. There is a suggested warm-up below. Also, the porta-potty lines are LONG so you want to make sure you save about 20 minutes to stand in line if you need to go before the race.
- 30,000 people is a lot. You will be moving slowly the first mile and a half through no fault of your own. If you are really focused on your goal time then try to start at the beginning of your corral or in the corral before your assigned one. That way you “should” be with people who are faster than you and they won’t hold you up. If you start too far back you’ll have a frustrating beginning.
- There are digital timers at every mile marker. Remember to note the time as you go under the start line (if you start in a middle corral it could be 15 minutes before you get under it). Subtract that time from the time on the digital display to know how you are doing.
- Run toward the center of the road. Running on the side of the road for long distances can cause your knees and ankles to hurt because of the slant in the road.
- After you settle in to your rhythm and your goal pace, find 4 or 5 people up ahead who are at that pace and either match them or if you’re feeling spunky try to catch them gradually. Every mile maker find a new group of 5 people up ahead to follow. If you pick the wrong person and they are not going fast enough just pass them by and find someone else up ahead.
- Don’t wait to eat and drink. Get water within the first two miles and continue throughout the race. It is hard to over hydrate with the little cups they give you but it is easy to under hydrate and then you can’t catch up. I don’t drink well while running so I step to the side, drink and then start up again. It only takes 5 seconds to do that.
- When you enter the Navy Yard you’re not done. There is still a quarter to a half mile to go. It’s easy to get the feeling that you are finished but resist the urge to coast.
- Enjoy the atmosphere. There will be people lining the streets, bands playing, the mayor will be out near city hall. Take it all in. This is the funnest 10 miles you’ll ever run!!
I hope you have a great run! I’m excited for you! Let all of your energy out. Broad Street always feels easier than any other distance run. I’m going to be in
Warm-up
I suggest a full body warm-up prior to the race. You should get your heart rate elevated a little and open up your lungs before your first stride. Go through this once when you get there and then a couple more times as the race approaches.
10 arm circles forward and back
10 torso rotations with your arms out to the side
20 body weight squats
25 jumping jacks
20 high knees
20 pushups (yes, you’ll be the only one doing pushups to warm up but we need to get your heart rate up, your upper body moving and your core muscles activating)
Be well,
Paul
Paul Dziewisz
Active Personal Fitness
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267.626.7478
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Fat Loss Tip of the Week from Active Personal Fitness
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Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Your Pushups For Charity questions answered
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Me and Serena Williams
On Wednesday Serena Williams tweeted “bad day” to her Twitter followers.
Serena has won 13 major tennis championships. She is a successful business person in the fashion industry. Her endorsements contracts are huge. What could be so bad?
“It’s a blood clot in your lungs.” That’s what they told me in the spring of 2006. The medical term is pulmonary embolism but at the time it didn’t register in my head. It should have. My father-in-law had died from a post-operative pulmonary embolism ten years earlier.
For me, it started with what felt like an upset stomach at noon on a Friday. It was uncomfortable enough that I left work early that day (I was a corporate cubicle dweller at the time). By 6pm I thought I had pulled a muscle in my left rib cage. It was plausible; I had worked out that morning and could have strained something.
By Friday evening I had tied the pain to my breathing. Deep breaths equaled searing pain in my ribs. Shallow breaths meant the pain wasn’t so bad. Being the stubborn, indestructible guy that I think I am, I went to bed.
By morning, at the urging of my wife, I headed to the emergency room. Every moment ratcheted up the pain level. In at 10am, put through a battery of tests including x-rays, blood tests, physical exams, more x-rays and finally six hours later a CAT scan.
Even after the CAT scan the nurse came into my room and prepared to release me. They hadn’t found anything. It must be a muscle strain.
Then 30 minutes later things changed. A small embolism was found in my lung on the last scan. Quickly I was put on a blood thinner and whisked up to a hospital room where I spent the next 5 days bed ridden while the Heparin dissolved the clot.
“Bad day” indeed.
Serena was diagnosed with a pulmonary embolism last week and is likely to face a minimum or 6 months on a blood thinner, perhaps a lifetime. This is not good news for an athlete. The regular intense workouts, the hours spent on a hard court surface and the occasional scrapes and falls that go with it are not great for someone who, once cut, can’t form a clot due to their medication.
Add the endless travel of a pro athlete and she has many obstacles to overcome to regain her footing as a great tennis player. (Airline travel was likely the cause of my clot. If you don’t move around regularly your blood will pool and the risk of a clot increases.)
However, I'm proof that a fully active lifestyle is possible. Six months of blood thinners and I was allow to stop taking them. I had no family history and no risk factors for forming clots. I get up and walk around on any flight that lasts more than an hour. I ride my bike fast, mix it up on the tennis court occasionally, hike with the dogs and stay moving like I did before. That clot changed my life in other ways.
That small clot is largely responsible for a dramatic turnaround in me. I used that bad day as a wake up call. My life changed significantly over the next several months. I chucked my corporate career, re-committed to be fit and healthy, and started my personal training business. I’ve never felt better and never loved what I do as much as I do today.
Hopefully Serena's bad day is just that, a single day that she will fully recover from.
Be well,
Paul
Paul Dziewisz
Active Personal Fitness
www.ActivePersonalFitness.com
267.626.7478
Thursday, March 3, 2011
The Cycle of Quitting
There are two types of quitting:
1) Giving up
2) Walking away from something harmful or hurtful
I get a bird's eye view of - THE QUITTERS. I know some would say we should talk about the winners, but I must say I probably learn more from the quitters. The winners show up, suck up, cry, stomp, celebrate, and then rinse and repeat over and over. Every successful person who has lost weight or gotten fit that I have EVER worked with, mentored with, or been a colleague to has had the exact same formula.
The quitters are a bit more interesting. They are very creative and it is interesting where and how "quitting" shows up. Now remember the #1 reason exercisers fail is they stop- yep-stop. I have been watching the 'quitters cycle' for a long time and I know when it starts to creep up on people and kick in. I think it would be useful for people to see a lineage of how it starts and how they might stop themselves, as well as see the difference between something needing to come to an end and just quitting.
It usually appears like this...
Second guessing ~ fear ~ blame ~ projecting ~ overwhelm ~ blame ~ action ~ (the quitting) ~ relief ~ second guessing ~ fear and over again
Fascinating, right? I am using it as a paradigm for myself to catch me and where I am falling into the cycle - you can honestly use it for anything - the gym, your business, a relationship, etc. So, I don't want you to be a quitter...frankly, seeing people give up on their dreams daily can sometimes overwhelm me and blind me to the people actually living theirs, but I know you are out there. I know you are striving and working and living your gifts.
Here are a few tips to stay in the game, even when you would rather throw in the towel:
1) Have a clear vision of exactly what you want - relationship, money, freedom, environment, and spiritual. If you have a clear vision in writing and in your view, it is harder to let that vision go or the dream die.
2) Get real. One of my mentors says... "It is simple, but it is not easy." Success is hard work. No one ever won the Oscar, Gold Medal, Nobel Peace Prize, or lost 50 lbs by half ass showing up. And don't fool yourself....are you thinking you are working hard or are you spending a lot of time around thinking about succeeding and processing your next step.
3) Get good advice. The people around me won't let me quit. Surrounded yourself with a circle of influence. I have a tribe of tough and loving go-getters who want the same goals as you and will hold you accountable. When you want to stop, take a moment and remember that giving up on yourself is also giving up on them.
4) Care. I know you have gifts to share. Your life experience has value and people are meant to be transformed by your connection and your talent. Care enough to keep going. Care enough to share and keep going.
If you do what you love and you love people while you do it there is no reason to quit. Stopping is not an option. See you at the finish line!
Be well,
Paul
Paul Dziewisz
Active Personal Fitness
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Friday, February 25, 2011
Why Your Workout is NOT Working Out
Are you getting the results you expect from your exercise routine? As a trainer I ask prospective clients this question all the time. Many of them respond “no”.
I’m not one of them. I get the results I want. My fitness level has soared over the last two plus years. In fact, I am nearly as fit now as I was when I was on the rowing team in college 22 years ago. And in many areas I blow that scrawny kid out of the water. How do I know? I measure my progress all the time (I even blogged about self-assessment).
My 2000 meter row is close to my college time and my squat, deadlift and overhead press are far better now then they were back in the day.
“But you’re a trainer, that’s why you’re fit.” I hear that all the time. The assumption is I hang out in a gym all day and do pushups. Actually, that’s not even close to the truth. I’m a small business owner so on the days when I can make time to workout it has to be short and sweet (I’ve also blogged about my workout routine).
So how did the 180 lbs college guy add 27 good pounds without the help of supplements, vitamins, or drugs (legal or illegal). I figured something out. Effort = Intensity = Results.
And I learned to get uncomfortable.
More than that, I determine that every workout must give me 4 distinct feelings; humbled, exhilarated, defeated and triumphant.
Why humbled? If you do not feel inferior in the face of your workout (even if it is just momentary) then you are not choosing a workout that is challenging enough to get results. At some point during every workout I say to myself “I’m not sure I can get through this.” That is not a sign of weakness. That needs to be a fact. You have to doubt your ability to finish. That’s when you know you’re working out hard.
Why exhilarated? In the face of feeling humbled I rise up and keep going. Do I take a short break, catch my breath, curse at my list of exercises? Yes. Do I continue to work until I am done? You bet. Sometimes the workout beats you up. That’s the humbling part. But when you beat up the workout you’ll get that overwhelming feeling of accomplishment and exhilaration.
Why defeated? I measure every workout. How long did it take? Was I faster than last time? How many circuits did I finish in 20 minutes? Was it more than last time? And just when I feel good about myself I make sure I find out how long it took the elite athletes and how many circuits they finished. I think I’ll never reach their numbers.
Why triumphant? In the face of a challenging workout that you are not sure you can finish, in comparison to elite athletes who crush your times and results, I am able to see steady progress. I completed the workout. I did it faster than I ever had before. I am stronger, faster, more agile and healthier than last year or last month or last week. And that feels AMAZING!!
Be well,
Paul
Paul Dziewisz
Active Personal Fitness
CrossFit Level 1 Trainer
NASM - Certified Personal Trainer
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Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Lessons in the 'Fierce Urgency of Now'
John Adams – In 1970 he and a small group of unpaid attorneys and law students setup an environmental law office with some old desks, chairs and file cabinets. The group became the Natural Resources Defense Council (NRDC). Sitting at the same desk for 36 years he said “if people want to protect the environment we’ll support their efforts…if not, we’ll play hardball.” With more than 1 million members they have acted as the planet’s lawyer.
Maya Angelou – As a girl she suffered trauma and abuse that led her to literally stop speaking. She found a voice in poetry and writing and inspired millions with her words. She taught us “History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived. And if faced with courage, need not be lived again. Lift up your eyes upon the day breaking before you. Give birth again to the dream.”
Warren Buffet – At age 11 he invested all of his savings in 6 shares of City Services Perferred at $38 per share. The stock dropped sharply but he stayed the course. 70 years later he is not only one of the world’s richest men but one of the most admired and respected. He now devotes the vast majority of his wealth to those around the world who are suffering, sick or in need.
Gerta Klein – She spent 3 years in concentration camps enduring a 360-mile death march and weighing only 68 lbs when she was found by American forces. Now an author, historian and champion for tolerance she said, “I pray you never stand at any crossroads in your own life. But if you do, if the darkness seems so total, if you think there is no way out, remember to never ever give up.”
Rep. John Lewis - “If not us then who? If not now, then when?” is the sign posted above a doorway in
Tom Little – An optometrist from New York he spent 30 years with his wife Libby in Afghanistan serving the children of the region and giving them sight amid the horrors of warfare and repeated invasions. Amid the recent conflict he was ambushed and murdered last year in a senseless act of violence. He was a true humanitarian.
Silvia Mendez – As a young schoolgirl in
Stan “The Man” Musial – A Hall of Fame baseball player who lost one of the prime years while serving in the U.S. Navy. Musial was the first player ever to earn $100,000 and then insisted on a pay cut when he did not perform up to his own high standards. He remains an untarnished pillar of the
Bill Russell – Cut from his basketball team in junior high, he led the
President George H. W. Bush – His 70 years of public service included being a decorated Navy pilot, U.S. Ambassador to the U.N., CIA Director, Vice President and eventually the 41st President of the United States. A champion of service to others and to country he continues to lend his efforts to aid Haitian earthquake relief. His humility and decency reflects the very best of the American spirit.
All of these people took a stand for themselves first and then took a stand for others. All I ask you to do is take a stand for yourself. What are you waiting for?
Be well,
Paul
www.ActivePersonalFitness.com